5 Best Ways to Get My Ex-Girlfriend Back

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Just a few short weeks or months ago, she was the best thing that ever happened to you. Now, she's just the one who got away - the perfect woman whom you didn't appreciate back then, but now you want her back more than you can stand.

If you are asking yourself, "What are the best ways to get my ex-girlfriend back," I may be able to help. After living this reality myself (more than once, unfortunately) and doing tons of research, here is a sampling of the 5 best ways I have learned to get an ex-girlfriend back:

1. Come to terms with your own contribution to the breakup:
You need to start your path to recovery by recognizing that you, personally, were a big part of the breakup. Yes, you are at least partially responsible for not being with your girlfriend right here, right now. She cheated, you say? She was acting terribly? She (fill in the blank)? No matter what she might have done, I can guarantee you that you are a part of the puzzle that has made this situation what it is. You'll need to admit that if you want to have any hope of getting her back.

2. Your future with her is firmly in your hands:
The biggest mistake that guys in your shoes make is that they fail to act. Instead, they sit there wallowing in their misfortune, seething in pain and resentment over their fate, boring their friends with their lost love stories, or drowning their sorrows in a booze-fueled daze. If any of these sounds like you: you owe it to yourself to put a stop to the madness.

3. Stop playing the blame game:
At this point, you only have two healthy and viable choices in front of you: forget her completely or get a plan together for getting her back. Of course, if you choose to forget her, you really have to go through with it. In other words, by just burying the pain and harboring it in your heart, you will just let it eat away at your insides. That can't be good for you.

4. Create your future together in your mind:
It turns out it's not just all a lot of bunk meant to sell more books: your mind DOES create your reality to a greater extent than you may want to admit. Whether or not you buy into this, it is worth a try (you won't be sorry): every morning and every evening, create a powerful image in your mind of you and your ex-girlfriend back in each others arms.

5. Get a plan, then execute:
To get what you want, you'll need a plan. That's right: you need to put pen to paper (or fingertip to keyboard) and put together a plan to make your vision (see step #4) into a reality. You can do it, especially if you have the right tools.

Now that you know some of the hard-won knowledge I have learned about how to get back together with your ex-girlfriend, it is time to get to work. But first, make the only legitimate decision you can make right now: are you going to truly forget her and move on, or are you going to do everything in your power to get back together with her?

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This article was published on 2010/04/01
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