Here's What to Do to Win Ex Girlfriend Back

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It's very tough when your girlfriend dumps you and learning how to win back ex girlfriend is very, very challenging if you don't know what you are doing. What you need to win back ex girlfriend is a plan. This article is intended to give you a few ways to develop that plan.

First, take a deep breath. Stop and think about each and everything you should do before trying to get your ex girlfriend back. Many people make the mistake of making some kind of major move that they think will knock their ex girlfriends off her feet and make her come back to you. It doesn't work! Now is the time to be subtle and even a little aloof.

The first step in your plan is to stop all communication with your ex. She broke off for you for a reason and if you don't leave her alone, like she wants right now, you will only drive her further away. By leaving you she has expressed her desire for some time and space. Give her what she wants - for now.

The next step in your plan should be to figure out why she dumped you and what you may have done to cause the break up. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and by all means stop beating yourself up, that will not help in this situation. Just make an honest evaluation of what your role was in the break up. I know you probably don't want to do this but believe me if you just try to figure this out it will make a world of difference when you begin to work towards getting your ex back.

The next step is to make the changes you need to make. Whatever that may be. Maybe you have anger management issues or trust issues. Have you been over possessive of your ex to the point where she could not make a move without you wondering or asking where she was? This is a major turn off. You need to learn to trust her. If you have these problems even a little professional advice can go a long way in turning your situation with your ex around.

Next, work on building up your confidence. A confident man does not worry were his partner is or who she is with. He knows who he is and doesn't worry about losing his partner. So building up your own self-esteem can many times be the missing link that turns these situations around.

Now if your ex broke up with you because you cheated on her then you have to get to the root cause of why you did that. You have to find a way to stop that temptation. A professional can help you here too.

So these are the areas where you need to start working your plan. These are the areas you have to work on, to win ex girlfriend back. Only when you have worked on this can you work on the next stages of your plan to win her back.

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This article was published on 2010/04/03
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